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Addicted to Easy: Have We Lost Our Ability to Do Hard Things?
The facial expressions of one of my clients still make me laugh today. About five years ago, during a session, the client mentioned shredding cheese to make tacos. I was fascinated. Shredding cheese on a weeknight was an accomplishment. Tacos I knew. Browning the meat and adding store-bought packaged seasoning, I understood. Cutting tomatoes for tacos, I mastered. Why was shredding cheese fascinating to me? I did not shred cheese. A retro manual coffee grinder, adorned with i
Darline Amos-McElroy
Oct 1


Are You Restricted by Your Environment? Personal Growth Lessons from Two Identical Flowers
While watering my plants one evening, I observed these two containers. These flowers are identical. They received the same sunlight, water, soil, and care. Yet one flourished while the other remained noticeably smaller. The only significant difference was the container’s size. It raises an important question: What if our lives work the same way? Sometimes our greatest limitation isn’t our ability—it is the environment, the beliefs, or relationships that have become too small
Darline Amos-McElroy
Jul 1


Learning Life Lessons from My Fiddle Leaf Plant: The Need to Change Maladaptive Coping Behaviors for Healthier Relationships
I have been nursing my fiddle leaf for about three years now. Maintaining any plant this long is an incredible feat for me. I must say, I’m proud! I knew upon purchasing that it was a difficult plant to grow. However, I liked it and decided to give it a try. I successfully transplanted the plant when it was needed. I made sure to keep the plant in one location near the window, occasionally turning the plant when it bent towards the light. I wanted it to grow upright. Fallen l
Darline Amos-McElroy
Mar 4


Lifting Depression from People through Self-worth
A man basks in the warm sunlight streaming through a window, casting geometric shadows on his face. Jonathan McReynolds' song "People" captures the essence of relationships. His cry to God, "Deliver me from people," is a constant prayer for many. It is no secret that relationships are necessary but challenging. A former principal shared that he and his wife never had any arguments. However, he raged unexpectedly at work, and alcohol soothed his intense emotions. It may not ha
Darline Amos-McElroy
Oct 1, 2025


Hobbies Impact on Your Overall Well-being
An older gentleman gave parental advice. “When your children begin dating, ask the young man or lady what their hobbies are." He...
Darline Amos-McElroy
Jun 3, 2025


It's in the Music: Using Music as a Coping Technique for Anxiety and Depression
Emotions are universal. Not an ethnic or socio-economic group does not experience emotions. Emotions are also very valuable. They give us...
Darline Amos-McElroy
Mar 4, 2025


Nature: Using the Power of Nature to Improve Physical and Mental Health
Author hiking with husband on anniversary My husband and I recently celebrated our wedding anniversary. We wanted to include something...
Darline Amos-McElroy
Jan 9, 2025


Building Emotional Intimacy: How to Ensure Others Find Safety in Your Communication.
"Do you ever listen to me?" "How can I when you are always talking to me and everyone at the same time?" he asked. "I never told you...
Darline Amos-McElroy
Nov 1, 2024


Tools to Break the Cycle of Helping Others and Stop Sacrificing Your Needs
Feeling neglected in your relationship? Perhaps you feel as if you’re the one doing more. Are you always there for friends and family,...
Darline Amos-McElroy
Oct 1, 2024


The Fight Within: Making a Difference for a Greater Purpose
The documentary on Netflix, Shirley, is the first political documentary I've watched. I am not a political buff, not even on a good day...
Darline Amos-McElroy
Aug 3, 2024


"Uncovering the Impact of Pride in Personal and Professional Development"
She wasn't afraid to speak her mind. Long before Colin Kaepernick took a knee, she refused to recite the pledge of allegiance during the...
Darline Amos-McElroy
Jun 30, 2024


Exploring the Role of Worship in Marriage: How Does it Impact Your Relationship?
In the marriage relationship, God has given us the responsibility to care for what He has given. Accountability is necessary and personal.
Darline Amos-McElroy
Jun 1, 2024


"Balancing Family and Personal Goals: Finding Your Priorities"
Putting God first requires self-awareness, spiritual understanding, and intentionality
Darline Amos-McElroy
May 1, 2024


Healing is within Your Reach
The Crossroad Decision Twenty-two years separated from the hatred of his brothers and absent of his father's adoration, Joseph came toe...
Darline Amos-McElroy
Mar 29, 2024


Driven by Faith when She Didn't Know the Outcome
She lived in a different culture and period. No social media; instead, a royal decree was issued. A disguised orphan, she walked through...
Darline Amos-McElroy
Feb 29, 2024


She Didn't Know
She didn't know. The little girl in the picture had no clue how her life would unfold. There were two professions, she claimed. "A...
Darline Amos-McElroy
Feb 21, 2024


Marriage Realities
Engagment excitement and wedding plans often override the truth about marriage. In our new series, Marriage Realities, we will share...
Darline Amos-McElroy
Sep 29, 2023


Push Through
Are you hesitant to correct someone because of your past sins? Are you afraid to live out God's word before those who knew you when you...
Darline Amos-McElroy
Feb 28, 2023


No Way Around It
One may ask, "What about all the promises of God? How do I get to the good part? "You can't go around it" is a statement meaning...
Darline Amos-McElroy
Feb 21, 2023
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